Deana, 34
Submitted Aug 10, 2007
Have met my father Deana has met her father
I'm not ready to tell my story. But what I know is, that there is a longing inside of me, a whole that needs to be filled up. It is a secret longing after a meaningful dad-daughter-relation, a longing that hurts.

After I became a mother my need of a father and a grand-father has totally expanded. I know my biological father don't give a shit abour me. I have given him so many chances. I know all this, but why is it so hard for me to accept the situation as it is?

Is there anybody out there, who recognises my feelings and my story?
3 comments:
Oct 24, 2007, Hanna wrote:
Dear Deana,

I think I know the feeling you're talking about. It's like there's some part missing inside of you, a big hole where the dad-daughter-relation should have been. It feels like you're carrying a constant sadness with you all the time, a longing for something that most ordinary people have and that you'll never be able to achieve yourself.

At least that's how it feels for me. I don't share your story, since I know that my father cared for me. But the feelings you're talking about are mutual and regardless if he loved me or not, I still lost him. And I still miss him.

Take care,
Hanna
Nov 11, 2007, Camilla wrote:
Oh God! This is me in a nutshell. I know what to expect from my father but still I get disappointed. Every birthday, christmas or whatever. You can read my story under Camilla,30, Göteborg!
Feb 17, 2008, Bojan wrote:
Oh god what are these men doing to us?
I can understand that you want to give your child/children a grand-father also.. Must be hard for you explaining why the man is not around!?
Feel free to e-mail anytime, if/when u feel ready to talk!

Hug Bojan