Deana, 34
Submitted Aug 10, 2007
Have met my father Deana has met her father
I'm not ready to tell my story. But what I know is, that there is a longing inside of me, a whole that needs to be filled up. It is a secret longing after a meaningful dad-daughter-relation, a longing that hurts.

After I became a mother my need of a father and a grand-father has totally expanded. I know my biological father don't give a shit abour me. I have given him so many chances. I know all this, but why is it so hard for me to accept the situation as it is?

Is there anybody out there, who recognises my feelings and my story?
Oct 24, 2007, Hanna wrote:
Dear Deana,

I think I know the feeling you're talking about. It's like there's some part missing inside of you, a big hole where the dad-daughter-relation should have been. It feels like you're carrying a constant sadness with you all the time, a longing for something that most ordinary people have and that you'll never be able to achieve yourself.

At least that's how it feels for me. I don't share your story, since I know that my father cared for me. But the feelings you're talking about are mutual and regardless if he loved me or not, I still lost him. And I still miss him.

Take care,
Nov 11, 2007, Camilla wrote:
Oh God! This is me in a nutshell. I know what to expect from my father but still I get disappointed. Every birthday, christmas or whatever. You can read my story under Camilla,30, Göteborg!
Feb 17, 2008, Bojan wrote:
Oh god what are these men doing to us?
I can understand that you want to give your child/children a grand-father also.. Must be hard for you explaining why the man is not around!?
Feel free to e-mail anytime, if/when u feel ready to talk!

Hug Bojan