Elli, 16
Submitted May 15, 2008
Have met my father Elli has met her father
Decided to not stay in contact Elli decided not to stay in contact with her father
I have a long story about my father. he decied to leave his children incl me when my mother and he got a divorce. he thoght we(children of his) didn't love him anymore. so he left us, he let mom take care of three children alone just beacse of his ego. all he think of is himself. i had the best grownup with him, we builded things together laughed all the time. then all of the sudden he thoght we didn't like him. mom got a new boyfriend which did everything worse, just beacuse he had money. dad sent me and post there it stood things like: you don't need me more you have .... now, you can do fun stuf with him and he has a pool and money, forget me!.. I cried in years, that broked my heart. how could my fucking father do someting like this to me, just leave me all alone?.. we haven't heard since of maybe 5 years, only on family dinners, but we haven't said a word to eachother then. now my grandmother and grandfather have died. and he actually understand he has children. he cries and call my ant and says how much hi miss his children. but I have closed my heart for him now. he have ignored me for more then five years, and know all of a sudden he understand. he has touched the bottom, he can't get lower then he allready is. as i've read in erlier storys. you lov him and hate him at the same time. I wish i just had an answear.
Jul 19, 2008, wiseoldmen wrote:
you only live one time, he is you  father i know that he make a mistake , try and give him a chance again ,, life is short and you maybe have worsh regret that you again have the oppotunity to be with you father again,,,,
Jan 20, 2009, wrote:
This is you life, so onlu you can decide what is best for you. Just try to make yourself happy, without thinking about other persons to much.